This article explains how to use the knob "preferred" under [edit interfaces] when an interface enabled for dhcp-relay has 3 different subnets.
By default, the lowest-numbered address on the subnet is the preferred address.
One option to change this behavior or to make DHCP use another IP address in this interface would be configure the knob "preferred":
For example:
user@switch# set interfaces irb unit X family inet address <ip-address> preferred
Source: https://www.juniper.net/documentation/us/en/software/junos/cli-reference/topics/ref/statement/preferred-edit-interfaces.html